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A Study of The Book of Romans Lesson 42 Chapter 7:1 – 4
a. If a man assumes he can live the law then he must understand it is to be kept all of his life. b. If a woman and a man are united in marriage it is to be a life time commitment. (we will look more at this in verse 2. c. The word’s “dominion over” means rule over or lord over, as marriage should be.
a. Today marriage is like a TV bought at Wal-Mart if you don’t like it then return it or trade it in on a new one. However it is designed to be a lifetime commitment. This is also true with the law one cannot simple divorce themself from it. b. As to marriage and divorce; while some hold to the thought that divorce is never scriptural I disagree, I believe there are at least two scriptural grounds for divorce. c. (1.) Matthew 19:9 “And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.” – fornication means - harlotry (including adultery and incest – or whoring around either by thoughts or by actions. Matthew 15:19 “For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, blasphemies:” d. The word “adultery” means - who has unlawful intercourse with the spouse of another. e. So let’s separate the two words fornication and adultery – fornication is a single person sleeping around or basically whoring around. – adultery includes at least one of the two being married. f. In Matthew 19:9 if fornication did not include adultery then this verse would include only single people; however if fornication did not include married people then there would be no need to put away his wife. In other words two single people can fornicate but two single people cannot commit adultery. g. (2.) In 1 Corinthians 7:15 “But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.” - So if one is married to a unbeliever and the unbeliever leave then a divorce is granted and re-marriage is granted. – However this hurts the case for those that believe there is no scriptural exception for divorce. h. John Gill said the following; “is bound by the law to her husband; to live with him, in subjection and obedience to him, - so long as he liveth; except in the cases of adultery, Matt. 19:9, and desertion, 1Cor. 7:15, by which the bond of marriage is loosed, and for which a divorce or separation may be made, which are equal to death:”
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